The rest of it is all just the normal course of events for someone in this situation, but this isn't a good sign: If he were thinking about you, he'd contact you when he does have the rare free minute or two. The yard stick he uses to assess what is "normal" is so warped that he has lost touch with what a happy life could look like he often berates himself for feeling so miserable given how "easy" his schedule is at just 65 hours a week, not like surgery or some other 80 hour a week speciality. Today, at my ward sacrament meeting, in the back section of the chapel where I was sitting, all the women except one were Mormon wives in interfaith families. She cannot get into the top echelons of heaven without being sealed to a worthy priesthood holder in the temple for time and all eternity. How many chances will a girl have to find such a wonderful husband candidate. If He can answer prayers to help you find missing car keys, He surely can help you understand who it is that you should marry. Maybe he found a nice Mormon girl after all. The goal of dating at that age is to broaden your social circle and learn more about yourself. No one, except someone who has been Mormon can understand how deep the hooks are sunk into the Mormon psyche. And he likes the idea of us raising our daughter with the values the Mormon church instills on their youth.
I'm currently married to a second year resident in emergency medicine. I married a person, not a religion. It is my opinion I know my husband loves to come home and only eat, sleep and have wild sex. Yes; I suppose if each of us believe the other is brainwashed, there's going to be major problems later on. Avoid the topic when you can, it's not something that'll be pretty unless handled in a calm discussion which Well, people as a whole tend to be pretty immature with big topics. There is much that needs to change and many hearts to educate but if we doubt some of the fundamentals then why not all of them. But on the main page of exmormon Reddit on the side bar there is a link to a site with links to all the pages on LDS. Unfortunately I've been sort of seeing a girl who is basically a real deal Mormon. The right age for getting married varies depends for men and women.
Yes, talk talk talk about everything yoiu can think of, but beyond that I would suggest pre-marital counseling from people knowledgeable in each tradition at play this will probably take two different counselors, who might be faith-based. Sorry if I gave that impression. Their pain is guarded within the confines of their professional experience. I have spent my life alone waiting for things to get better.
I tiptoed into my current relationship with a medical student dating two years, med school is almost overand one of the first things I brought up when he was pursuing me and he pursued me HARD was that I would not be the kind of person that would date a doctor. I am so sorry for the pain you are going through. How to Win Over a Guy.
