Don't just start and stop at the penis to arouse your man. The penis is just the tip haha of the iceberg when it comes to sensation! Experiment with all the new places to find out which one will send your boy over the edge. If your guy has chest hair, you might as well play with it. The area is more sensitive than you think, and he'll love you running your fingers through it. Place your hand flat on their lower chest or belly and, keeping your palm on their skin, run it up their chest until you have a handful of hair. Tug, starting gently," says Kait Scalisi, sex educator and founder of PassionbyKait. You can do this on their head, too, starting at the back of their neck. No, not the butthole. I wouldn't do that to you…just yet.
1) Setting the mood
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Sensual Massage Technique for Total Relaxation
Looking for a fresh way to reconnect with your guy? Try a simple but deliciously sensual massage. Think how un relaxing it would be to get a massage on a jiggly water bed. For maximum comfort, have your guy lie down on a futon mattress or pallet of blankets and place pillows under his neck, knees, and ankles. Instead, try a light single scent, like jasmine, and warm the bottle in a bowl of hot water. The tickling of loose hair or a lacy nightie might excite him and you , but it can also take his focus off the deep, steady sensations of your massage. Tie your hair back and wear close-fitting clothes to minimize distractions. If you play music, keep it soft and slow. Pressed for time?
Skip navigation! Story from Sex. Sophie Saint Thomas. Sometimes, getting a nice, long massage from your partner can feel better than sex. Luckily, you can have both. Giving your partner a massage yes, it's important to give as well as receive is not only an act of love and kindness, but it's the ultimate foreplay. By using touch, lighting candles, and anointing your partner with oil, a massage is as erotic as it gets. Whether or not you plan on incorporating a happy ending or oiled-up sex into your rub down, the intimacy benefits of learning how to give a proper massage are boundless.